Intimacy is a concept that includes more than just sex and physical touch. It is a closeness, a true togetherness, and a deep interest in each other. Unexpected cuddle, hearing the other out without dispraise, delving into each other's true essence, feelings, and desires.

Allowing to be – both yourself and your loved one. This is what tantric sex is all about – accepting and respecting your and your partner's sexuality. Not only enjoying each other but also delving into the sensual perception of life. Ability to be here and now.

Tantric sex – what is it?

The whole body is sensitive and erotic, not just some zones. But to experience it, you have to allow it yourself. It does not arise from the virtuosity of the partner. We are responsible for feeling the sensuality of our body and mind. It all depends on how conscious, present and loving we are.

Using Tantra in a relationship, the quality of sexual experiences improves, interest in each other, and intimacy increases. There is no target in tantric sex, its essence is to be in the process and enjoy it, to feel not only physically, but also to experience spiritual fusion, a sense of true intimacy and love.

Tantra is an ancient practice in which sexuality is valued and considered one of the most powerful ways to learn spiritually. Sexual energy is the energy of life, the energy of creativity and power, our great ally to feel alive, full of inspiration, and able to enjoy all other areas of life.

In Tantra, it is believed that it is not possible to solve any other problems until the sexual side is in order. This energy is the driving force. Introducing tantric sex into a relationship means being in this state of power and enjoyment, living life to its fullest. Tantric sex changes consciousness.

Tantric sex – it is not fast and casual. It is a deep connection with your loved one, a journey, taking time, paying attention, and feeling the magical energy that vibrates when you both meet. Meeting in sexual intimacy is not just a physical act, it is the creation of energy.

Tantra practices methods that allow a man to prolong the time until the culmination of Western understanding, so it is a real gift for all women who want to prolong pleasure, and then invest the received energy of pleasure in a relationship. There is no purpose here, the goal is the process itself!

In sexual intimacy, just like in any other part of our lives, sometimes we mistakenly think that I will be happy when I have a dream job, when I have my own house, when I have my sweetheart. It is believed that sex is successful when an orgasm is reached, thus the process itself remains somewhere in the background.

But the process is nothing but life itself! And this is an infinitely beautiful process in which we get to know the beloved more and more and intensify the senses.

Would you recognize your loved one's skin with your eyes closed?

In tantric sex, it is unacceptable to remark on visual imperfections and other nonsense. We share experiences, support, listen, learn from each other, explore what brings joy, and recognize emotions and moods. We are together.

Practitioners of tantric sex emphasize that it is a meeting of two mature people who fully accept each other and are not afraid to make mistakes. They can laugh together because mistakes are also part of a wonderful journey.

Author: IEVA KRASTINA

Photo: OH KTISTINKA, LIBKOS