Somewhere along the way, wedding design became consumed by a manufacturing line. We were told to pick three colors from a cardboard swatch, select adjectives like "boho" or "classic," and assemble a room that looks like an advertisement for someone else’s life. But when you strip away the social expectations, a wedding shouldn't feel like a photo shoot. It should feel like stepping directly into a couple's home – if their home were suddenly expanded to fit everyone they have ever loved.