Wedding planning is an emotional rollercoaster. One moment, you're excited, imagining the perfect flowers, the stunning dress, and the magical first dance. The next one you're knee-deep in seating charts, RSVPs, vendor contracts, and aunt's relentless opinions about everything. Suddenly, your dream day feels more like a high-stakes project with way too many moving parts. Let's take a breath! We don't have weddings to give us another reason to stress. And remember—you don't have to do everything yourself!
It’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed—this is a huge milestone, after all! But stress shouldn’t steal the joy from this beautiful journey. If it has happened to you, there are techniques to reduce it. A few simple stress-relieving exercises can make all the difference. Different methods from deep breathing techniques to gentle yoga and even dancing around your living room, will help you feel centered, relaxed, and fully present.
Ever noticed how, when you're stressed, your breathing becomes shallow and fast? That’s your body’s fight-or-flight response. Deep breathing is like hitting the reset button on your nervous system—it signals to your brain that you’re safe, allowing your body to relax.
Try a few rounds of deep breathing when you wake up, before making big decisions, or whenever you feel tension creeping in. Even a sneaky bathroom break during a stressful wedding discussion can be a perfect moment for this.
Weddings involve a lot of standing, smiling, posing, and moving—basically, a full-body endurance event. If your muscles are tight and tense, you’ll feel it, and that tension can make its way into your mind, too. Yoga helps you stretch out stiff muscles while also promoting a sense of inner calm.
Even just 10 minutes of yoga in the morning or before bed can work wonders.
If your brain is working overtime imagining everything that could go wrong: What if the cake is late? What if my dress rips? What if someone brings an uninvited plus-one, meditation can help quiet the noise. It trains your mind to stay in the present, helping you enjoy the journey instead of obsessing over what might happen.
You don’t need to be a meditation expert to benefit. Just a few minutes a day can transform your pre-wedding mindset from frazzled to zen.
Endorphins are your best friend when it comes to stress relief. These feel-good hormones boost your mood, energize you, and help you feel more positive—exactly what you need before your big day. But don’t worry, you don’t need to hit the gym for an intense sweat session.
The goal isn’t to exhaust yourself but to shake off tension and get those happy hormones flowing. Plus, it’s a great excuse to escape for a little “me time” when wedding planning gets overwhelming.
Ever noticed how stress makes your shoulders creep up toward your ears or leaves your jaw feeling tight? That’s muscle tension, and PMR is a simple yet powerful way to release it.
Doing this before bed is especially helpful—because the last thing you need is a sleepless night before your wedding.
In fact, nothing can derail you if you don't do everything yourself. Hire a wedding planner and a wedding day coordinator, and divide the responsibilities among friends who are very willing to help. You should look forward to this day with joy and strength! Enjoy this beautiful time of your life!
Your wedding day is meant to be a celebration of love, not a stress marathon. Yes, things might go wrong, and it is completely normal, but by incorporating these simple stress-relieving exercises—deep breathing, yoga, meditation, light cardio, and PMR—you’ll be able to stay calm, present, and actually enjoy the day.
So, when things get overwhelming, take a deep breath, stretch it out, and remind yourself why you’re here in the first place. This is your moment, and nothing—not even a mismatched napkin—should take away from the magic of it.
Author: Ieva Simanoviča