Characteristics of female sexuality

To better understand a woman's ability to feel pleasure, firstly, it is necessary to know the anatomy of a woman's pleasure. It is necessary to know what actions (including non-sexual activities), both in the moments of intimacy and before these moments, will inspire the woman and sexually arouse her, and what behaviour will have the opposite effect on her.

Note that a woman's potential for sexual drive and sexual pleasure is also influenced by factors beyond her partner's control. Feminine sexuality is very complex and consists of absolutely everything that has happened to a person throughout her life: from the healthy development of the embryo while still in the mother's womb to the patterns created in childhood and all the successful and unsuccessful sexual experiences during her lifetime.

All this is accompanied by the peculiarities of a woman's cycle. A unique and unimaginable cocktail of sexual nature is formed, which you have to get to know, accept and be present in its development to help her experience as much pleasure as possible.

A woman's sexual openness and ability to enjoy is very important. Unfortunately, many women have blocked sexuality or even have an unconscious fear to feel pleasure. These behavioural algorithms occur in childhood. Some parents allow girls to explore their entire body and touch all parts of their body in a completely safe way, name them and accept them as a normal and integral part of their body.

Other girls are beaten on the fingers in their childhood, both literally and figuratively, if the girl shows interest in touching themselves under the waist, and those parents call these parts of the body strange names. Thus, the child is programmed to avoid mentioning and using the intimate areas of the body, as it is presented as a shameful and sinful act.

If a woman has had a conservative and negative attitude during childhood, she is unlikely to indulge in masturbation and body exploration during her teens. This will later affect their sensitivity and capacity to the enjoyment of her pleasure zones. If this stage of self-exploring is missing, there is a high risk that the nerve endings are underdeveloped, and it will be more difficult for the woman to get aroused, enjoy the stimulation and reach orgasm in the future.

She also does not know what makes her feel comfortable and won't be able to communicate it to her partner. The partner will only have to guess. Such situations are most often the result of sexual intercourse in which only the partner enjoys it because the woman is not physically able to feel as much as she would like, as she practically does not know what to do to enjoy the whole process of intimacy. A woman’s ability to experience pleasure begins with her ability to enjoy herself.

Such situations have to be resolved individually and, most often, in a complex way (with several methods). If a woman does not have a traumatic experience of a sexual nature and she is open to the world of pleasure, then positive results can be achieved through open communication and open-minded experiments with a partner.

If the problem is more deeply rooted in childhood and there are negative sexual experiences during life, then the woman should seek professional help from a therapist and/or sexologist.

Only after learning about these psychological aspects and resolving situations, you can go on an expedition of physical pleasure zones. First stop: the female brain! Even after dealing with the factors mentioned above, it is still necessary to understand that the most important organ of a woman's pleasure is the brain! It is responsible for the elusive and the emotional, physical, and perceptible with every inch of the body.

Of course, not everyone needs to know the structure of the brain and all the neurological processes, but there are things to consider when it comes to a woman's well-being. To be ready for intimacy with the partner, there must be no harassing, annoying, stressful, or otherwise disturbing thoughts in her head.

Which are the main pleasure areas of female genitals?

Clitoris

The clitoris undeniably has an important role in the world of women's pleasure. Its main task is to provide the pleasure and orgasms of its mistress. 75% of women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. It can be stimulated in several ways, and each woman should know what kind of stimulation she likes best. The most popular is the external stimulation of the clitoris, focusing on the clitoral head – the most sensitive part.

The clitoris is not just a small thing between pubic lips. This organ of pleasure is much larger. Its body goes deeper under the skin and is extend along the entire length of the vulva to the entrance to the vagina and, in some cases, even to the anal area. This allows the clitoris to be stimulated in less direct ways than just massaging its head.

Under appropriate conditions, clitoral stimulation is also possible through the vagina. It is also called G-spot stimulation because massaging the G-spot stimulates the clitoral system from the other side – from inside the vagina (rather than from the outside of the vulva, as is most common).

The stimulation is most effective with your fingers or a suitable sex toy. If you are in an appropriate position, and the penis is at the right angle, stimulation of the G-spot (the other side of the clitoris) can also happen. To do this during vaginal sex, both partners will have to work hard to find the right posture, angle, depth of penetration, rhythm, and so on.

Vagina

The vagina itself cannot be defined as a full-fledged organ of pleasure. In most cases, its ability to provide a pleasant feeling is overestimated. Remember that, most often, the main character in pleasure games and orgasms is the clitoris. For the vagina to feel pleasure during stimulation, it is necessary to focus on certain parts of it. First of all, a G-spot massage is possible through the vagina. Second, the very entrance to the vagina (its first centimetres and sphincter) is especially sensitive.

It can enjoy an oral massage, massage with fingers, or a toy. When it comes to vaginal sex, the vagina will respond more pleasantly to a larger diameter than length. The statistical majority will prefer penetration with a dildo, vibrator, or penis that is more appreciable in diameter but shorter in length, than thin and long.

If it is longer, it will be necessary to carefully control its depth. The woman should tell her partner how deep penetration is comfortable for her. If the penis is so long that it is not possible to limit the depth of insertion with different poses, then buffer-type rings worn on the penis can come in very handy.

They prevent slipping deeper than desired. A toy or long penis can be used for a cervical massage. The cervix is located at the very depth of the vagina and is the path by which a man's semen enters the uterus. In addition, the uterus is also an organ of pleasure and can have a very strong orgasm!

To pleasantly stimulate the cervix, the toy or the head of the penis should be rotated in the depth of the vagina. During sex, it is easier to do if the woman is on top of her partner and can fully control the situation and rotate with her hips, enjoying a pleasant deep massage. This technique has to be practised several times, and there is no guarantee that it will work the first time.

The size of the penis matters, but the size is no guarantee of pleasure for a woman. The most important thing will be whether you pay attention to the clitoris. In addition, many ladies can enjoy only medium or even smaller penis and vaginal toys. In such cases, the bigger diameter or length may be physically painful if the vagina is extremely narrow or the woman has difficulty relaxing. In such cases, penis sleeves (which give the penis more length and diameter) are the worst toy to choose.

Stimulating cosmetics

Men are often interested in a variety of oral (drinkable) products which can give a woman more pleasure or simply make a woman ready for sex. In most cases, these motives are not noble-minded, and those who want to use these suspicious substances are not aware of real women’s sexuality and the anatomy of pleasure.

Drinkable products are usually quite risky for health and will never be safe or effective. In a healthy partnership, the couple must first go through the above-mentioned to explore the psychological factors and erogenous zones.

And only then try to use healthy intimate cosmetics to stimulate sensations. There are various creams and gels used on sensitive areas of the body to stimulate sensitivity. External use is safe, it is easy to control the effect and be aware of the effects on both partners.

Both partners can choose which area to use these sensory-stimulating intimate cosmetics: clitoris, vulva, vagina, G-spot, or nipples. Clitoral sensitizers can cause the following sensations: warming, cooling, tingling, vibrating, pulsating, and, most importantly, sensitizing, to make all touch more expressive, higher arousal, and easier to reach the climax.

Author: SexyStyle

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