More and more couples are choosing small weddings. Unwillingness to follow traditions and arrange a grand party, a wider choice of wedding venues, and the desire to create an intimate atmosphere with the closest ones - these are just some of the reasons why couples choose to have a small wedding.
A small wedding can be as special as a grand one, mainly because it is a wedding - a new stage in the life of any couple. However, if there is any doubt whether the event will be vivid and memorable, Bride Lifestyle collected 7 tips on how to make a small wedding special.
Nothing makes you feel as good as taking care of yourself. The day before the wedding, head to the spa, enjoy a couple’s massage or have champagne in the jacuzzi. Relaxation and care for your well- being will reduce stress and help you set the mood for a beautiful event regardless of how many guests will attend.
The ceremony will be the most important event of the wedding - especially of one. Regardless of the chosen venue, find the appropriate music for the ceremony, write personalized vows to each other, ask the celebrant to include personal details in the speech, or involve guests in it.
With a little effort, you will create a heartfelt atmosphere for a nice celebration.
When organizing a wedding, it is important to think about each element. A wedding in a narrow circle will be different from a party with many guests. It is very important not to enforce fun, hoping that in a small company, you will achieve the same as in a big wedding. A small wedding will be more like a special birthday party or a family dinner.
Take care of the relaxed atmosphere, and don't worry that everyone is not on the dance floor. Enjoy that you can pay enough attention to each wedding guest. Talk to everyone and make them feel special.
The biggest plus of a small wedding party - you don't have to think about satisfying and entertaining a large crowd. Use it to your advantage. At a small wedding, you can pay attention to every detail and make it personalized. Instead of table cards, write a personal note for each guest.
Choose interesting decors that reflect you as a couple, and think of attractions you and your guests will enjoy.
If you like wedding traditions and it seems that there is no place for them at a small wedding, it is not like that at all. Sometimes traditions are just what is needed to give the wedding the right feeling.
If you are not attracted to old traditions, think of new ones. Ask the wedding organizer to include an interesting game or sing in a duet instead of dancing. Every tradition can be changed or modified to suit your wishes and ideas.
It is important to capture the wedding day not only in memories but also in beautiful photos or videos. The fact that your guest list does not include 4 grandmothers, 20 cousins, and primary school classmates does not mean that you should skip documenting the event.
You will never regret investing in the work of a great photographer and videographer who has captured the best moments with your loved ones. Professionals also offer their services for a shorter amount of time in case you don't need to document the whole day as it would be at a grand celebration. Sometimes a few hours with a photographer or videographer are enough for you and your guests to capture the most important and beautiful moments.
Small wedding celebrations usually end on the evening of the same day. The fact that the guests have gone home does not mean you have to return to your home.
Continue the evening for two in a wonderful hotel. Find exactly where you've always wanted to stay. With a large bath in the middle of the room, windows overlooking the sea or the lake, in a romantic country style, or a private cottage in the middle of the forest. Maybe you want to stay in one of the glamping tents or spend the night in a high treehouse?
Choose an equally beautiful ending for your beautiful day!
Author: Elisa Rudzite
Photo: Karra Leigh Photography
Venue: Shutters on the Hill
Design & styling: Mae&Co
Creative Floral: Good Seed Floral
Rentals: The Wedding Shed
Paper goods: Seek Paper Co
Bridal Gown: Grace Loves Lace
Bridal Makeup: Melanie Jane Makeup Artist
Bridal Hair: Aleesha Darke Hairstylist