There is no other platform as powerful to grow, learn, and enrich yourself as relationships. The relationship is an opportunity for growth and enjoying life and love on an even wider scale. It is a gift of a rich life experience that should not be taken for granted. How can you change your attitude towards relationships so that they are nothing less than a gift of deep value and gratitude?

1. Give to Yourself First

If you at the start point are waiting love is going to give you something and fill you up, it’s already putting too much pressure on it.

Fill up yourself first!

To build deep and valuable relationships, you must first love yourself. Loving yourself is not just words. Until there is a real understanding of what it means to love yourself, a relationship full of love, respect and acceptance is not possible. Until you know yourself – without the layers of opinions and beliefs that you have acquired in the family, school, society, or from gurus – you also do not know what you want from a relationship and what kind of person you want to let into your life.

That's why the break between romantic relationships is crucial – it's a time to listen to yourself and not let your emotions rule your life. You are the decider!

2. Work with Mindset

It’s not that simple, you may say. True. Changing the mindset is not easy, it is a long-term effort. But the fruits of a change of mindset are immeasurable. The more you work with yourself, the closer you get to the truth that in reality all gold lies in simplicity. We have complicated life and relationships, and now we have to relearn simplicity. The real keys to a good relationship are love for yourself and your loved one, respect for yourself and your loved one, acceptance and gratitude.

Maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship demands effort, understanding, and the right attitude.

3. Importance of Communication is Cruical

One of the most crucial relationship tips is to recognize the importance of communication. Open and honest communication is the foundation of any strong relationship. It allows both parties to express their needs, desires, and concerns, preventing misunderstandings and fostering a deeper connection.

To improve communication in relationships, start by practicing active listening. This means fully concentrating on what your partner is saying without interrupting or planning your response while they are still talking.

Remember that disagreements are normal. Opinions tend to differ. Your opinion five years ago was also completely different than now! If you know how to respect yourself, you will also know how to respect loved ones and discuss differences of opinion, respecting other people. It's not about winning an argument! And definitely not for humiliating the other one. If there is a situation you doubt what your loved one said – ask!

One of the most popular mistakes in relationships is when something is misunderstood by a loved one, and it is not discussed. If you didn't like something your loved one said, ask what they meant by it. Most often it is really just a misunderstanding. Do not carry suspicions or doubts – everything can be talked out in healthy relationships.

4. Set Realistic Expectations

Many relationships suffer because of unrealistic expectations. It's easy to fall into the trap of expecting your partner to fulfill your needs or to be perfect in every way. This can lead to disappointment and frustration. And it is not a story about a loved one but about your mindset. In conscious relationships, there are no inadequate expectations and the idea that he/she will guess what I want. You give yourself what you need. A loved one is like a beautiful addition, as a way to direct the enjoyment of life and the path of human exploration in breadth and depth.

No one is perfect, and mistakes are part of the learning process. Allow room for growth and change, both for yourself and your partner as long as there is respect. Accept that there will be challenges, and not every day will be blissful also in a conscious relationship where you each work on your growth. However, these challenges can be opportunities for growth and deepening your connection.

It's also important to communicate your expectations clearly. Discuss what you both want from the relationship and how you can work together to achieve those goals. By setting realistic expectations and communicating them effectively, you can reduce misunderstandings and build a stronger, more resilient relationship.

5. Prioritize Emotional Intimacy

Intimacy is not just physical. It's not just in bed or touching. Emotional intimacy is what truly sustains a relationship. Emotional intimacy involves being vulnerable with your partner, sharing your innermost thoughts and feelings, and creating a safe space for them to do the same.

Being attentive, showing empathy, and being willing to share your emotions is a gemstone for relationships to flourish on a deep level. You already sense that there is no criticism or judgment in such a relationship. Even more so – such phenomena in any romantic relationship are absurd. Instead, offer support and understanding when your partner opens up to you.

Engaging in meaningful conversations and spending quality time together can also enhance emotional intimacy. However – it is important to see and appreciate each other even in difficult moments, not only on beautiful dates. Continue to respect, love, and desire when she/he is sweaty, tired, dirty, exhausted, hungry, angry, sad… and that is true love!

6. Practice Gratitude

As said before, a relationship is a gift and should be treasured. If you haven't tried the practice of gratitude yet, try it and see how your attitude towards the world, yourself, and your relationships changes. It gives new energy, and a completely different mindset and vision. A simple tip to do together every day: in the evening, over a cup of tea, or before going to bed, tell each other what you are grateful for today in general, and what you are grateful for each other. And then… Watch a miracle happen!

7. Celebrate Your Relationship

Conscious relationship are a celebration. Just as you celebrate the birth of a child, a wedding anniversary or Christmas, celebrate life and your relationship!

Appreciate them!

Feel deep gratitude.

Love is the answer to every big question.

Author: Ieva Simanoviča